These kinds of “problem” friends cannot be made
“How do you dress like a village woman?
“” Look at you, it always messes things up.
“When you want to solicit opinions from others, these answers popping up from your friends’ mouths will make you feel defeated. Not only that, they also like to criticize you in front of others.
This kind of friend always looks more sophisticated than you, looks like your staff, but actually wants to degrade you in front of everyone.
Envious of their jealousy, they often taunted and ironically in order to achieve psychological balance.
When a large group of friends gather, there are always a few people, and when the conversation box is opened, the river will flow endlessly, leaving no one else to intervene.
Such “talking” friends are generally more anxious, and are called “agitated” psychologically.
Agitation often makes him habitually occupy the time of others and plunder others’ feelings.
But there are also some people who want to be the focus of everyone’s attention and deliberately grab friends’ limelight.
You’ve been tired for a day, and you’ve gotten into the bed. A “friend” called and asked you to play with him overnight; you hesitated a little bit, and then used “is it a friend” to blame you.
This kind of friend is very selfish, and he always feels that others get more, and he gets less, and feels unbalanced. Therefore, he can arbitrarily dispose others to satisfy his injustice.
Used to breaking the contract.
When you get up early in the morning and come to the place where you made the appointment in advance, you just wait and see.
In the end, the other person said “I’m sorry, I’m fine”, which makes your mood greatly reduced.
This kind of friend is unstable in mood and changeable mood. When he finds something interesting at first, he goes to the appointment quickly, and feels boring and moodless within a few days, so he often “releases pigeons”.
Feelings of sentimentality are not shortcomings, but in the face of friends who are overly sentimental, you often feel that you have become a “trash bin” where the other person dumps bitter water. The content of the chat is all about complaining and complaining.
This type of friend usually has low self-esteem and does not have the courage to find a solution to a problem.
Over time, their bad emotions will affect your mood and the perspective of the world.
If a “problem” friend affects his emotions and life, you must learn to refuse.
But refusal must also pay attention to art, and special attention should be paid to don’t blame them with strong language, but try to be as gentle as possible.